About us.
Welcome, I’m Brindha, I’m a Certified Relationship Coach, and Member of International Professionals for Relationship Coaching.
I’m originally an IT Professional who worked for various industries in the Market for the last 14 years. Currently live in Ontario Canada.
I come from the southern part of India, Tamil Nadu, and elder daughter in a family of 3 girls. Married to my husband from another religious background, we both came to each other when we started building ourselves on a software career.
we felt a strong connection in the relationship that we built from a friend to a trustworthy, supportive, determined person for each other which led to the marriage.As every couple, we started our life focused on job, family, and financial aspects, with some challenges faced and overcoming them together always. When we moved to Canada, we worked on ourselves to fit into the new country, professional job, and work-life balance to meet our family, and Professional goals together again with some challenges and failures faced and overcoming it together. Also, I started regularly practicing yoga and meditation for stress relief and relaxation since my son was born in 2013 that led me into the spiritual path.
I have always felt a pull towards helping others irrespective of my needs since childhood, It worked somehow fine with the family and friends in my home country, but with this nature, I felt overwhelmed in the new country to deal with the people we met, and have figured out, to help I need to coach people who want to build resiliencies to work on themselves after failures, because till that point (2019) my Journey was as such.
But, did not realize that the journey had just begun. In 2020 during the Covid Pandemic Lockdowns, I started to find myself as an Empath (who senses others’ emotions, and energies deeply and wants to connect and help), which often let me down in the past instances, and people misperceived me as i mirror other energies, I felt other’s emotions and energies strongly as mine, I continued to keep working on myself, found difficulties to set boundaries, and my boundaries were rejected by others, I felt strong degrade about my ownself, sudden unknown fear of everything, started giving up on many things on myself which i considered necessary and built it for me once.
As a result, our family started to enter into conflicts, between me and my husband even small problems turned out to conflict fights, and I was being flipped over to a different person we couldn’t connect in the same way we used to be once, we encountered hole between us, and found difficulties to continue to be in the relationships as before, and started working on to retain the relationship as we both understood its value.
The learnings and healings towards the journey, and few other undesirable events in our life, had strongly insisted to get certified as a Relationship Coach and jump into a practice to help and coach others who are in the journey alike.